The pick of Pastor Rick Warren has caused an uproar amongst Obama supporters, especially gay rights activists, because of Warren’s extremist conservative views on gay marriage and abortion. Ironically, Warren is also getting blasted for his participation in the Obama inauguration ceremony.
The problem here is this. As an Obama supporter I knew that Obama was not perfect and had flaws. One of those flaws was his view on gay marriage (a flaw that all major Democratic candidates shared). Unfortunately, many Obama supporters got so caught up in the idea of Obama and getting rid of Bush and Republican rule of our nation that they failed to come to terms with the difference that Obama has with them.
Take for example Joe Cutbirth who says in I voted (twice) for Obama and Apparently I Lost:
Rick Warren’s selection is a thumb in the eye of every lesbian and gay citizen of this country, and an insult to kind and decent Americans who believed that Obama’s presidency was the beginning of a new era in our history.
I am as loyal a Democrat as they come, but I am saying right now, today, publicly, on the record, that this is so troubling to me - and frankly to a lot of other people, gay and straight - that I will not vote for Obama in 2012, if I do not have the right that day in whatever state I am living in this country to marry the person I choose.
Forgive my bluntness but this is just dumb. Imagine if Bobby Jindal or Sarah Palin gets the GOP nod in 2012. Is Cutbirth really saying that he would vote for either of those two extremists over Obama? Or is he saying that he would just stay home or vote third party, helping Jindal or Palin get elected? Again, this is another example of some Democrats and their willingness to cut their noses off to spite their faces.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I am vehemently against proposition 8 and support true equal rights for homosexuals, including them getting the same label to their civilly recognized unions that heterosexual couples have. And I am not saying that people should not be critical of Obama. I will be one of the first to be critical of Obama when he is wrong (and I am openly critical about his stance on gay rights).
What I am saying is that instead of being so darned emotional about your candidates, that some people really need to stop, breathe, and think about this issue for a moment. What effect does Obama picking Warren have on policy? The answer is nothing. Barack Obama has made an overture to people that he disagrees with (something he promised to do in his campaign, if Mr. Cutbirth paid attention to that) and he did so without having to sacrifice anything relating to policy. The more Obama reaches out on symbolic issues to the religious right, the less he has to do so on policy issues while still looking bipartisan.
And perhaps, just perhaps, if Obama shows a willingness to listen to the other side… maybe some people on the other side will return the favor. Imagine that.
Update: After an email exchange with Mr. Cutbirth I feel rather secure that he would not support either Jindal or Palin for President. And he just wants to see the leadership support the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment (understandable). The one thing I just don’t understand is that he seems to want to hold Obama to supporting gay marriage as a condition for him supporting Obama in the future. However, Obama never promised to support gay marriage so holding him responsible for doing something he didn’t say he would support seems a bit odd. This just goes to show you that even people who agree on many issues can still have major disagreements.